Human beings are pack animals. We crave camaraderie and companionship. The idea of the “lone wold” is romanticized in fiction. It seems awesome to be a brooding loner who stays to themselves because they’re so dark and mysterious and have such a troubled past that no one can understand them. However, in real life, being a lone wold is just, well… lonely. It’s way better to be part of the pack and it helps you get through life a lot easier.
That said, while we may crave the company of others… a lot of us aren’t very good at it. It’s nice being with friends and family, but not all the time. Sometimes being with others is best done in doses. Small, small doses. Alone time is also great. Unfortunately, many people don’t understand that and try dragging us out of our shells. We’re not lone wolves… we’re just occasional turtles. Let us be. If you’re a fellow introvert, then here are some common scenarios and feelings you’ll be able to relate to a little too well.